Practice area: Children, parental authority, residence, maintenance contribution, extraordinary expenses

Protecting your child's stability after the separation.

When parents separate, the organisation of the children's lives has to be thought through carefully and realistically. A clear framework must be set for important decisions, for the time spent with each parent, for who bears which costs and for adapting the family's organisation to the child's daily life. I work with you to find a balanced solution, suited to the child's interests and workable for both parents, whether it is built by agreement or set by the Family Court.

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What this covers

Parental authority, residence and the maintenance contribution: three main questions.

Parental authority concerns the important decisions in a child's life, such as schooling, health, administrative formalities, extracurricular activities or philosophical or religious upbringing. In principle it is exercised jointly by both parents, even after the separation.

Residence organises the time the child spends with each parent. It can be equal shared residence, primary residence with one of the parents, or adapted to a different rhythm, depending on the child's interests and the family's reality.

The maintenance contribution, for its part, is about sharing the costs of the child's upkeep and education, taking account of the child's needs and of each parent's resources after deduction of unavoidable expenses.

Alongside these ordinary costs, extraordinary expenses are settled separately. They are listed in the Royal Decree of 22 April 2019, which determines the extraordinary expenses arising from Article 203, § 1 of the Civil Code and sets out how they are accounted for, evidenced and paid between the parents.

I help you organise these questions clearly, seek agreement where possible, and apply to have an existing decision adapted when the situation changes, for example after a move, a change of job or a new family arrangement.

Common situations

Questions that come up in almost every case.

Whether the separation is recent or long past, the arrangements for the children must be set, adapted when needed, and respected.

How I work

Protecting the child, calming the parental relationship.

01

Listen to the family's reality.

Rhythm, distance, bonds, history: good residence arrangements are built by putting the child at the centre of the discussions.

  • The rhythm of daily life: the child's, and that of each parent.
  • The couple's history, which sometimes shapes the positions they take.
  • The special bonds to preserve between the child, their parents and the wider family on both sides.

The main aim is to help the couple move from partners to co-parents who stay united for the child.

02

Seek agreement when it protects.

A lasting agreement is preferable to an imposed judgment, provided it is balanced and complied with by the parents.

03

Go to court when it is needed.

Before the Family Court, the case is prepared, costed and argued firmly, with the best interests of the child as the guiding line.

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